This blog is my personal journey toward becoming a better person. A better husband, father, friend, and chaser of dreams. By sharing that journey I hope to connect with other people taking a similar path, whether it is through provoking thought, discussion in the comments, or just relating to my words.

I plan to share my take on various aspects of our dueling analog and digital selves, links/quotes/brief commentary on awesome (related) posts I find on the web, and occasionally some ephemera from my life.



First and foremost, I am the lucky and loving husband to my wife Melisa; loving father to my 3 girls (twins Zoey and Stella, plus their big sister – by 13 months – Lucy.) We currently live in Buffalo, NY, though we did spend 5+ years in Seattle, WA and almost 2 years in Rochester, NY, with two amazing cross-country trips in between.

I am an aspiring buddhist, though more for the philosophical aspects and approach to life. I enjoy cooking AND eating good food. I discovered a love for comic books, especially anything X-Men, at the ripe age of 36. I also love music, the Nintendo Switch, obsessing over iPhone apps and productivity, hockey, and photography.

My current day job involves UX design for an international science equipment distributor. In my spare time, I work on Eko Wave, a niche affiliate marketing company I formed with two friends (and current co-workers at the day job.) We’re currently working hard to turn the latter into the former.